Discovering how to make love your
husband in a way that leaves you
both satisfied is an incredibly fun
journey to take, especially if things
aren't going so great right now.
However, you shouldn't expect things
to change overnight. This process
takes time!
1. Get Your Positioning Right. Often,
when women are trying to learn how to
better make love to their husband, they
fall into one of two camps. Either they
believe that they need to 'try a little
harder,' or they feel that they need to go
totally overboard and go 'pornstar' on
their man. Thankfully, learning to be
better in bed is much easier and more
fun than these two options.
Try new sexual positionsin bed. You
don't need to go overboard and start
with the craziest positions you can find.
In fact, this is usually a bad thing.
Instead, start by trying out variations of
positions you already enjoy. Next, start
to introduce completely different ones
that you've never tried before.
The interesting thing is that you'll most
likely enjoy less than half of the new
positions you try with your man. That's
fine, you only want to keep the
enjoyable ones anyway. In time, you will
slowly build up a list of great sex
positions that both you and your man
get a lot of pleasure from when making
love.
By the way if he enjoys you talking dirty,
then you may want to check out this
tutorial videothat will teach you
everything you need to know on talking
dirty.
2. Don't Just Assume. A massive mistake
that so many women make when figuring
out how to improve their love lives with
their husband is they just assume that
things are fine or that things are not
going so well. As the old saying goes,
"ASSUME makes and ASS out of U and
ME". It's so true. So rather than
assuming everything is fine with your
man in the bedroom, make sure to talk
to him about it.
Sure, you may be nervous, awkward or
even a little embarrassed when it comes
to talking about sex with your man. But
if you want things to improve, then you
absolutely must talk to him about what
you need from him in bed and vice-
versa.
Talking to your man about your sex and
love life doesn't need to involve both of
you sitting down at a table with a list of
talking points. Instead, wait until you're
both in bed and start by letting him
know what you really enjoy him doing
and what you would like him to do more.
Make sure not to criticise him on
anything (guys do have pretty frail egos
when it comes to the bedroom).
Next, it's time to find out what he enjoys
you doing to please him. If your man
doesn't volunteer the information, then
you need to ask him. Again, being direct
can make your man close off. So instead,
try suggesting ideas to him, "I have a
feeling you like it when I'm submissive,
do you?" or "I wonder what your favorite
position is?"
You'll find that your man will start to
slowly open up to you as you ask him
these questions. If you want to keep
improving your love life with your
husband, then it's important to keep an
open line of communication with him
and ask him these questions every once
in a while, noting the answer and trying
to incorporate his answers into your love
life.
3. The Sex Setting. The next area to
focus on when trying to improve your
love making abilities with your husband
is to start examining the setting. If you
only make love with your husband after
you turn off the lights, then you should
think about experimenting with the
lighting. Try leaving a lamp on in the
corner of your room or even try lighting
a few candles.
Next think about playing some music to
listen to during sex. That one is pretty
easy.
Smell is another sense that you should
try to pay attention to. How do you
smell and how does your room smell?
Would wearing perfume add to the
atmosphere? How about lighting some
incense?
What about physical location? Do you
always have sex in your bedroom? Why
not change things up and try having sex
in the bathroom, kitchen or even outside
the house? If you have kids then finding
the time for sex may prove very difficult,
especially without having to worry about
them walking in on you two. A great way
to avoid this and increase how sexy it
feels is to have someone babysit your
kids overnight and to book a hotel room.
The last thing I have to say on choosing a
setting is deciding on what to wear...
why not try wearing some sexy lingerie
for your man or a pair of stilettos or
even a sexy costume?
4. The Build Up. The actual act of sex
isn't the only thing to consider when
learning how to make love to your
husband. You should also make sure to
think about how you build up to sex,
how to create sexual tension, how to
seduce him and create sexual tension.
This all happens way before you have sex
through teasing, flirting and letting him
know what's on your mind.
So think about this in future. Ask
yourself, "How am I turning my man on
BEFORE sex?"
A great way to help with your build up is
to talk dirty to your man and to send
him naughty text messages when you
aren't around. You'll find everything you
need to know about it inthis detailed
dirty talking tutorial video.
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