For years, the clitoris was considered
the only trigger for the female
orgasm. Alas, even finding the clitoris
turned out to be a daunting task for
many men, and things didn't get any
easier in 1950 when a physician by
the name of Dr. Ernst Grafenberg
found an even more mysterious
female pleasure spot hidden within
the vagina.
This area became popularised by
sexologists as the 'G-spot'. It turns out
that stimulation of the G-spot produces
a very powerful kind of female orgasm.
For both of these reasons, finding,
stimulating and discovering how to
master the woman's G-spot has become,
for both men and women, the Holy Grail
of female pleasuring.
What exactly is the G-spot? It is the
bean-shaped, spongy tissue of the
paraurethral gland, which is analogous to
the male prostate. The actual area is
rather small, but it feels rougher to the
touch than the surrounding tissue.
Because the G-spot is composed of
erectile tissue, it swells up when blood
rushes to it - especially if you learn how
to master the woman's G-spot
effectively. It is located about one to
two inches back from the vaginal
opening inside the front vaginal wall. The
'front' wall is the wall of the vagina on
the same side as her belly button.
The best way to find the G-spot: First of
all, the G-spot is easiest to locate when a
woman is sexually aroused, so don't stint
on your foreplay first. To locate and
master the woman's G-spot, face your
partner while she is lying on her back
and insert your index or long middle
finger into her vagina as far as it will
easily go. Then crook it up toward
yourself in a "come hither" motion,
sliding your fingertip along the top of the
vagina until you find an area that is
rougher than the rest of that vaginal wall.
Make sure you have your fingernails
clipped short and buffed before you do
this - sharp fingernails will definitely spoil
the effort. This rough or slightly ridged
area is the "G-spot," and touching it will
often cause a woman to react with
surprise or pleasure.
If you don't get a reaction, don't be too
shy to ask her if she feels especially
sensitive when you touch what you think
is the spot. You may need to use a fair
amount of pressure to find the G-spot
because it is located within, not on the
outside of, the vaginal wall.
Sometimes, it helps to use your other
hand on the outside of the mons pubis
(the hairy area above the pubic bone) to
lightly massage the skin in the area
where your crooked finger is touching to
intensify the effect. And since not all
women are G-spot sensitive, don't get
discouraged if you can't get a special
reaction.
While some women are capable of
multiple orgasms with repetitive
stimulation of the G-spot, others don't
get much of a feeling and some even feel
discomfort from G-spot stimulation.
No worries - every woman will
appreciate the attention and the effort!
And while searching, you might discover
other areas in her vagina that she
responds to even more enthusiastically.
Tapping into love. The best way to
manually stimulate the G-spot is with a
firm "tapping" motion with your crooked
finger. Even women who do not enjoy
manual stimulation of the G-spot may
enjoy penile stimulation of the spot
during intercourse. The "woman on top"
positions and posterior (doggy style)
positions are best for achieving that
contact.
The only way to get G-spot stimulation
in the missionary position is to prop her
hips up with pillows. Women can also
intensify their ability to have G-spot
orgasm by learning to contract their
pelvic muscles, known as Kegel
exercises.
Sex gets better with age. Most young
women under 30 find clitoral orgasms to
be more powerful because, due to their
relatively high oestrogen levels, their
vaginal lining becomes too thick to allow
direct stimulation of their G-spot nerves.
As the oestrogen level begins to decline
in women during their 30s, the vaginal
lining becomes thinner and the G-spot
becomes more accessible. That's why
most women feel that they begin to
peak sexually in their early to mid-30s.
What are the main differences between
the clitoris and G-spot? Basically, the
first thing that you need to know is that
the purpose of both the clitoris and the
G-spot is to provide sexual pleasure to a
woman. Women have far more body
parts which can be their premier source
of pleasure - including her breasts and
her vagina.
Here is a quick definition of each. The
clitoris is a small erectile organ located at
the anterior part of the vagina. Sex
experts say that it is the only human
body part whose sole function is to
provide women with sexual pleasure. In
simple terms, it is that small pleasure
button which is located on top of her
vaginal opening - the one which can be
stimulated to bring her to new sexual
heights.
The G-spot is physically similar to the
male prostate. It is a bean-shaped tissue
which is located just behind the frontal
wall of the vagina. Its position is quite
tricky, though, unlike the clitoris which is
visible to the naked eye. With the G-
spot, you need to use some manual
dexterity in order to reach it.
However, it is important to note that
every woman's body is different, so
some may respond better to clitoral
stimulation while others may prefer the
trickier G-spot stimulation.
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