Confidence is one of the sexiest things about a
woman. It shows that she has other character traits
that men love — the ability to stand up for herself,
empowerment, good looks, and sassiness. Not only
that, but confident women embrace their
assertiveness over their own se*uality — and they
know what they want.
Confidence is knowing that you’re worth a lot and
that you have value to add. It’s a deep feeling of
certainty about who you are and what you stand
for.
But dating, especially after a divorce or break-up,
can leave women with their confidence shaken to
the core. Sometimes being confident is easier said
than done.
Here are some tips for being confident while dating.
Remember, comfortable is not the same as
confident. To be empowered, you must get in touch
with your innermost self and learn to feel certain
about who you are and what you stand for. This can
pull you squarely out of the “I guess he’s good
enough” rut and into a relationship you deserve.
Start small. The more confidence you have in a
single area of your life (For example: I am excellent
at snowboarding), the more it will seep into other
areas of your life. It’s hard to look at the big picture
and say, “I WILL be confident in ALL of these
things.” So start small, build that confidence.
Fake it until you make it. Sometimes, the very act
of approaching a great guy, or making eyes at
someone, or taking that first step into dating, can
create a cascade effect. The more you do it, the
easier it’ll become. And the more confident you’ll
become about doing it again.
Channel your inner diva. If you’re feeling like you’re
blowing a first date, think of your favorite diva and
how SHE would react. Pretty soon, that inner diva
will be you.
Smile. There’s very little sexier than a killer smile.
It’s your first impression, and it’s likely to last a long
time.
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