Nollywood actress
Nuella Njubigbo is getting married to film director, Tchidi Chikere on
Friday March 28, 2014 in her father’s compound. The marriage is taking
place two years after Nuella tour Tchidi and his lovely wife, Sophia
apart. The actress released a stated this evening, agreeing that she is
getting married to Tchidi but denied having any part in his first
marriage breakup.
See her statement below:
”Let me start by confirming some of
the rumours you may have heard. Yes, the traditional marriage rites
between Tchidi Chikere and I will be performed soon. This was not the
way we imagined or planned it, but as they say, nobody has a crystal
ball to tell where or who we end up with. Life is a dice.
At the time the rumours of his separation/divorce and me being
involved was going on, I definitely was not in that space where some
story writers said I was. I was busy doing other things with my life,
other preoccupations, a relationship (I thought would lead to marriage),
and my acting career. Things happened, my relationship packed up and we
went our separate ways, I moved on.
Tchidi and I have always been friends (As I am with other
colleagues), We trade in the same career, but we never crossed that line
(we never dated), not to talk of me getting pregnant for him ( I’m
presently not pregnant as still being written) sometimes It’s really
tiring confirming or refuting some of these rumors. I know some
naysayers would still believe what they have made up their minds to
believe and stick to; Truth is, I am not making this statement for those
set of people, neither am I making it to get people on my side. This
statement goes out to those who love me and truly care about me and the
way I live my life, and to my very reliable and supportive fans who have
been asking questions and deserve to know the truth.
In the past two years, Tchidi and I worked more, we got closer and
more friendly, we were both single and I began to understand and see the
real him. Needless to say that I also began to really , really like
this real person I was getting to know more and more with every passing
day. Then it happened, our hearts clicked. Well, maybe the flying
rumours contributed to this and made me look more his way, or it could
have been part of life we have no control over.
Suffice this to say, he proposed to me a while ago and after very
careful thought and consideration on every side I said yes. Would I say
no because of what people would say and damn where my heart led me? Just
like Bill Cosby said, ‘the key to failure is trying to please
everybody’. I chose not to take that route, instead follow my heart.
My heart is remarkably at peace with this decision, and I am
willing to take this leap of faith which every married woman has taken.
Where this love will lead me I cannot say, I am not God, but, I have
hope, faith and believe that it will lead me to a good place. Every one
of us in this life deserves a chance to be happy. I am taking my own
chance.
This is the only statement I am making on this, any other one after
this is not from me. I can’t help what people say or write, but please
be careful about what you listen to or read and believe. For those who
wish me the best, I wish the very best, for those who don’t, I leave you
to God who sees and knows all things. Thanks for reading”.
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