Ladies, Here Is The One Place You Can NEVER Meet A GOOD Man

Clubs are a great place to party; but are usually
not the number one place love connections are
made. Note: there is a difference between a
genuine love connection and a booty call.
The latter can almost always be found at a club, in
case that’s what you’re looking for; but if you’re
looking for more, you have to consider the places
you’re searching.
I’ve met a lot of guys at parties and the club; but
none of the relationships ever went past a phone
call or a couple of dates. Usually things end like this
because the guy calls me the wrong name when he
contacts me the next day because he’s probably
collected too many numbers. Or sometimes, the
connection falls short because he doesn’t seem as
attractive on the inside or outside like when I took
his number in the dimly-lit club.
Consider this: The place you meet your future boo
shouldn’t be the place you want him to stop going
after you start dating. Basically, if he frequents the
clubs when you meet him, he may not be ready to
give that up just because he’s with you. After all,
that is the place the two of you first encountered
one another.
This is not to say that no love connections are made
in the club; but it’s typically not the place you
should go to seek out a romantic encounter. There
are plenty of good places to meet good men. And
usually it’s best to search where the two of you
would have a common interest. If you love jazz, go
to more venues that highlight that type of music
and vibe. If you could live in a book all day, go to a
bookstore to meet your future bookworm boo. Or
if you want a man of God or at least one who is
trying to be, then you should probably attend more
church outings (don’t sit in service peeping the
scene, that’s not the time or place). If you’re not
sure where to start, join the Single’s Ministry at
your church.
While I wish that I knew all of the best places to
find men, I don’t. I do know that every woman
looking for love should be more mindful of the
places they’re looking. I’ve heard so many of my
friends and at times myself, say we hope we meet a
good guy while going out to a not-so-good place. So
before you give up and say that there simply aren’t
any good men out there, evaluate the places you go
and have been looking.
Are you guilty of looking for love in all the wrong
places?